| It is a fact that the words you use in sentences,
        whether they are spoken or thought, become your thoughts, and your
        thoughts control your feelings. Therefore, if you use positive words, you will
        think positively.  A positive thinker, will then feel more in
        control, less stressed and
        worried than a negative thinker. Sometimes
        it means reversing the perspectives, to find the upside of an issue.
        When you do, you will find the positive view. If someone is asking you to do a job, and you are
        already busy, then you can either say (and think) “I can’t do
        that” or you can say (and think) “I can do that next week”. The
        latter certainly sounds better, and if you are overworked, is more
        likely to be the outcome.  Thinking positive removes the negative, stressful
        and worrying thoughts that upset us and create stress.
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